Any married cocksuckers out there? I'm bi, recently married and she doesn't know my past of being a cocksucker. I'd really like to hear from other married cocksuckers who hide it from their wives. How do you compartmentalize it? How do you prevent bringing back STDs? And how do you handle that first kiss with her after just having sucked someone's cock?
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I just have to be sure that whoever i play with can be discrete and private. I never suck off some random guy that I just met, I always give myself time to become comfortable with him through communication. Even though it is no guarantee that you can't or won't catch something, I only suck off other married men. Right or wrong, I believe it is the safest way to play, because married men are more cautious about who they get physical with because of the fear of bringing something home. The only guarantee is to not do it, but this seems to be a somewhat safer way to still play.
That's the trick, isn't it, how are you sure?
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I consider myself a pretty good judge of character. After communicating for a while, I can pick up on certain things that might be a red flag. Example, if they start bragging about everything they have done and how many times they have done it, or how experienced they are at doing things. You don't get experience unless you have been around. If someone says they have tried something once and would like to try again, or if they say they haven't done something and want to try it. Of course you have to take things with a grain of salt, because they might be the best liars in the world, so yes, there is no perfect or fool proof way to know the truth. You just have to decide if you are willing to take the chance or not. In my case, I have only been with 4 or 5 in the last several years. All but one have been regular repeat playmates lasting year or more with each. My playmate currently is someone that has been a regular for 4 years now. I am extremely selective and only meet after long periods of communication. Most people don't want to put that much effort into it. They are the ones that end up with something they can't wash off.