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Touching...
As you all know I've been in this lifestyle for quite awhile and there are just some things I cannot let happen without speaking up. I recently attended a party where something occurred that shouldn't be allowed to continue. I'm not going to mention any names because that would be uncouth, so in this will be said in general terms.
Ladies and gentleman, what I'm referring to is touching someone without permission. Please ask before you touch and remember to watch the other persons body language too.
I know this subject has been posted about over and over again, but it still keeps happening. I urge if this happens to you deal with it right away. Tell the host(s) or confront the person directly, but make sure it's taken care of. We have to let he offenders know that it is NOT something we will tolerate no matter who they are and how long they've been around the lifestyle.
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Very well said V. Let's hope everyone respects this. 
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The no touch without permission is a general rule among many groups. As a former group leader I've had to deal on rare occasions with this type of thing. Usually I did not know about it until after the group party was over a day or two later. Then when I asked who it was the person couldn't remember or they didn't want to get the person in trouble or start a stink in the group.
I suggest that when a person is touched without permission they slap the shit out of the one who illegally touched them. Hell that person would be slapped in public why not at a group party. The group leader are the party host should be informed of this at the time of the occurrence at the party, right then, as soon as possible, so they can deal with the problem of front and personal. Never wait when this problem pops up, deal with it at the happening. This way the group leader or party host can get the two persons involved and get both sides of the story and then act upon it in a appropriate manner. Licks and kisses, Angie. 
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First let us say sorry to the group member who endured this unwanted circumstance. We also agree with darknesstwins for posting this topic, and in agreement to with MetalMami, Angie, Big D and Linda. This thing does happen, but it should not happen. This is a great group of people and one bad apple in the bunch does come along. Let us not let one bad apple spoil the fun times for us and others in the group, Nancy and Paul.
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It's a damn shame this had to happen at a group party. I as a guy don't do it, and certainly don't like it. If any woman in the group ever has this happen to them at a party that I'm at, let me know, I will introduce that person to the JACK Hammer. 
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Thank you for bringing this to the group's attention darknesstwins. I have acted upon this, and have posted a topic of Our Group Party Rules. This kind of thing will not be tolerated at any of our group parties, thanks darlin, Red. 
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quote rednkgrll:
Thank you for bringing this to the group's attention darknesstwins. I have acted upon this, and have posted a topic of Our Group Party Rules. This kind of thing will not be tolerated at any of our group parties, thanks darlin, Red. ^:-J
Saw the new post Red, good rules you posted for the group parties, Sally. 
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The general rule to ask before touching, but some don't respect the rules as in this case. One thing in this group is we have a group moderator who won't stand for this being done to any member. Ken and I have been personal friends with her and her hubby for many years. Have partied and done pics with rednkgrll many times. Have attended her group parties in the past, and have seen her take charge when a thing like this came up. If anybody has a bad experience inform rednkgrll, and you will get prompt action from her. Seen the group rules she has posted and know she is already taken charge. Love you rednkgrll, kisses Star. 
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