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bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

1 response(s), 1 vote
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Crystaltite100 35 T
1  question
Why do secret flings feel so good? - 1/20/2019

I don't know what it is but having a secret sex partner who nobody knows about is so damn hot

42 response(s), 42 votes
undermythong 43 F
51  questions
What would upset you more? - 1/20/2019

OK for the men first what would upset you more if your wife left you for another man or she left you for another women? For the women what would upset you more if your husband left you for another women or for another man?

45 response(s), 52 votes
Skippy975369 44 M
1  question
Girth. Or length? - 1/20/2019

Dying to know ladies..

44 response(s), 46 votes
howdydoodyXLII 52 M
3  questions
I want to get back at Olivia (if that's her real name) - 1/19/2019

Almost 4 years ago I was taken advantage of by a woman I started chatting with here on Xmatch. Her name was Olivia. I was so naive back then, thinking I was actually going to get something out of it besides an empty wallet. It was one of your basic situations where she lied about living close to me and wanted to meet me, but first she had to leave the country on a "business trip". Turns ...

32 response(s), 42 votes
smalldikkk 61 M
1  question
Ambassador Rant - 1/19/2019

According to Xmatch you recently viewed my profile. Although you did not reach out to me I (Andrea) wanted to acknowledge that you at least looked. I appreciate you looking however per my very specific profile criteria I am not interested. But thanks again for looking. <br><br> I looked at their pictures. I look at a lot of pictures. That doesn't mean I'm the least bit ...

40 response(s), 44 votes
fandangochick 46 F
2  questions
Married Men and Women - 1/19/2019

Should married men and women share details of past sexual experiences? <br><br> It can be a turn on of course...what do you all think.

39 response(s), 50 votes
fandangochick 46 F
2  questions
Married Men and Women - 1/19/2019

Should married men and women share details of past sexual experiences? <br><br> It can be a turn on of course...what do you all think.

2 response(s), 1 vote
Bobceefsd 58 M
2  questions
Couples that aren’t really couple. - 1/19/2019

I am always interested in connecting with a male/female couple. It seems like most of the m/f couple that will chat with me immediately go to “are you bi”. Then go further asking to play solo. Then finally say my wife doesn’t play any more. Why not just have an accurate profile? Has anyone else ran into this or is it just me?

23 response(s), 26 votes
Are details not important? - 1/18/2019

Why is it so hard for people to fill out their profile details and keep them up to date? This does include pictures. We keep our profile and pictures updated and wish others did too. Why have a picture that is 10 years old before you add it to the profile and then 5 years later, it still there and appears in the main flow. Keeping it all updated, will help others match up with you easier ...

42 response(s), 64 votes
Seeingwantsome 35 M
1  question
What was the most akward yet most exciting play you've have sex? - 1/18/2019

This is a quest I am asking to find out in I'm way out there or just plain like sex. Mine was in a confession booth in a Catholic church with a nune

24 response(s), 30 votes
Bradwontstop33 27 M
1  question
Why people get ignored - 1/18/2019

Why would people ignore other people for no reason

25 response(s), 29 votes
muffin_guy 57 M
1  question
why - 1/18/2019

Lots of people post here for the points, so why do people feel the need to respond with smug answers just "let it go" like Elsa says

29 response(s), 46 votes
lotoload69 72 C
1  question
Urologist on board? - 1/17/2019

would love to chat with a doc about ED and side effects from it

17 response(s), 29 votes
What is your favorite thing to do in bed? - 1/17/2019

What is is your favorite thing to do in bed ? Anal? Or whatever I curious

49 response(s), 53 votes
CurvyCouplePNW 31 C
2  questions
Am I weird, or is this rude? - 1/17/2019

In all the time I (the male half, for future reference) have been looking for someone to have fun with, at least 80 percent of the time when I send a message, they ignore it. Maybe it doesn't bother most people, but it bothers me. Ladies, if you're not interested, please tell me so. I won't be mad; a little disappointed, sure, but not mad. And besides, as people falsely insist, there ...

53 response(s), 86 votes
AnewWoman 65 F
139  questions
Buzzmode? - 1/17/2019

I've accumulated a lot of points here at Xmatch, so I decided to use a few and get myself one of those buzz toys. I think it was something like 75000 points, but saved me $70 by not having to purchase one. Of course I had to try the thing out. Let me say wow. It is one of the best vibes I've used in a long time. Along with being able to use it while on webcam in buzzmode here, you can also ...

31 response(s), 64 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
tverescdzdrsvr - 1/16/2019

hello how are you

18 response(s), 27 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
reyu657wiie - 1/16/2019

hello how are you

4 response(s), 21 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
hghahgthbfgb - 1/16/2019

hello how are you

4 response(s), 16 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
hghahgthbfgb - 1/16/2019

ti kamnis enoxlo?

0 response(s), 3 votes
L0gan5 38 M
1  question
IM limits for standards - 1/16/2019

So after a couple away from the site, I came back and was surprised that they have put even more restrictions on standard members. Standards are limited to 3 "Chat invites" per day unless you spend points, but either the wording or the ruling on what an invite is can't be right. Even if someone else messages me first and I want to reply, I have to use one of my 3 daily messages. ...

44 response(s), 73 votes
Expectations for meeting for the first time - 1/15/2019

Just looking for safe advice on meeting up with someone for the first time What are the 'do's' and 'don'ts', not only for personal safety but also to the risk of offending someone. What are some things you find respectful/disrespectful that you have experienced? How can I/we have a productive and fun experience from this site? Thanks!!

36 response(s), 51 votes
Hung_Native 39 M
3  questions
Opening lines when you can't read their profile? - 1/15/2019

My previous question got a lot of responses that boiled down to "read their profile", which I completely understand. <br><br> So what do you do if you're a standard member? <br><br> I can read the first line of most profiles, but thats about it. I'll usually hover over their picture which allows me to see if they're looking for single men, their ...

15 response(s), 22 votes
jenbme 39 T
1  question
Any super passable girls with a cock? - 1/15/2019

I’m just going to leave this.....

32 response(s), 44 votes
Voyeurs and Exhibitionists - 1/14/2019

wondering how many people are here because it's a good place to (A) show off and ( watch from afar?

19 response(s), 29 votes
YesAnytimeYouWan 41 F
1  question
Is it sexy for people to have sex with the same gender as they are (????) - 1/14/2019

curious if people think its sexy .

1 response(s), 1 vote
Friends mom - 1/14/2019

one day when I was in high school I went over to my friends hose to see what he was doing and he wasn't there his mom was and we started talking and laughing she was a sweet woman , I didn't know at that time that my friend was staying at his grandmas house so I waited and as it got later she made me to eat and then told me she was going to take a shower and lock up before I left as I was ...

32 response(s), 63 votes
NortymanDan 43 M
1  question
Instant Messenger - 1/14/2019

Anyone else struggling with ?

33 response(s), 32 votes
Greece571 52 F
1  question
After Shades of Grey - 1/13/2019

Since Shades of Grey came out I am a little more curious about BDSM. Has anyone else experienced that or is maybe my sex life needing spice and that is why I am curious <br><br> For everyone's knowledge this is not about the movie. The movie was Hollywood. Please don't comment on whether or not the movie was good or dumb.

30 response(s), 51 votes
Hung_Native 39 M
3  questions
Ladies, whats the best opening line to use on IM? - 1/13/2019

"Hi" works just fine, but what are some of the best you've received?

23 response(s), 57 votes
Hung_Native 39 M
3  questions
Ladies, whats the best opening line to use on IM? - 1/13/2019

"Hi" works just fine, but what are some of the best you've received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Does regular use of toys... - 1/12/2019

make it harder for a woman to achieve orgasm with a man in intercourse? I thought of this when a dancer last night told me she hasn't been with a man for awhile and she used a vibrator to have 5 orgasms before she came to work that night. So I know I'm not about to measure up to that unless we play for a long time. Still I'd wager it will be easier and quicker with the toy. Is this a ...

32 response(s), 55 votes
KT1207 56 M
2  questions
A horny poem - 1/11/2019

Hard, throbbing cock Balls full of cum Waiting to explode Upon your tongue <br><br> Magnificent lust, None to be found; My cock I jerk Cum on the ground <br><br> A waste indeed To much my chagrin ; It would have been better To land on your chin

14 response(s), 49 votes
2trythis 60 F
6  questions
Vibrator Suggestions - 1/11/2019

Do you have any recommendations for a vibrator with a deep strong vibration? Let me try to explain what I mean. To me a typical bullet vibrator has a fast paced high pitch bizzzz to it. It’s too intense for me. I would like to find a vibrator with a slow paced more intense vibrate to it. Something deep sounding that resembles an old school muscle massager. Does that make any sense? ...

35 response(s), 64 votes
bradwatchesu4fun 49 M
1  question
points - 1/11/2019

whats the best way to earn points???

24 response(s), 44 votes
boring answers - 1/11/2019

so many people comment on these questions withe the most boring mundane replies why bother

29 response(s), 41 votes
Has anyone - 1/11/2019

actually seen a bear shit in the woods

18 response(s), 19 votes
IM - 1/11/2019

is the IM thing always playing up

13 response(s), 24 votes
Neutral vote - 1/11/2019

what is the point of a neutral vote on advise lines seems a waste of time to me?

11 response(s), 16 votes
stickysweet000 73 C
5  questions
Do you have problems viewing member cams? Try this. - 1/10/2019

I had a common problem viewing member cams. I was on Chrome. I switched to Edge. I cleared my cache of browsing history and cookies. I did a full restart. It worked. You're welcome.

29 response(s), 49 votes
fun24562 40 M
1  question
guys hitting on you - 1/10/2019

Does everyone have the same problem of lots of guys trying to hit on you? completely straight and even say "no guys" in my profile, yet they still try.

36 response(s), 41 votes
DavidLinMiami 29 M
1  question
How would I supposed to have an NSA friend (you know what it means) on this website? It seems hard! - 1/10/2019

Hi peeps! I have been on this website for about 7 days, and please don't laugh at me because I a person really your guys to help! I 24 , straight and have been single for all my life until now and I have been missed out the opportunity in college due to my workload and concentration on academics until now. I really want to know about how, and I have seen a lot of success stories on ...

24 response(s), 23 votes
veryhornyfoyou 39 M
1  question
co worker - 1/10/2019

How do i go about hitting on a coworker that i can tell is into me?

32 response(s), 30 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
hghahgthbfgb - 1/10/2019

mbklh;oju'ouj

13 response(s), 11 votes
2415boxers 64 M
2  questions
What is is your usual policy on no call / no show? - 1/10/2019

1- Unfriended <br><br> 2- Given another chance if excuse is plausible <br><br> 3- Hasta la vista Baby!

28 response(s), 26 votes
washedup491 46 M
1  question
watching - 1/10/2019

Do the ladies think it's bad when I guy wants to have them watch him get off?

12 response(s), 16 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Squirting - 1/9/2019

Still think squirting is real? Many know the real score that it is a woman peeing and research has borne it out. The Skene gland adds psa to the bladder during arousal. Here is the link basically they did an ultrasound before and after and the bladder was empty after a woman squirted. There is real female ejaculate but it is thick and white and sparse. It was pretty obvious when they have videos ...

52 response(s), 61 votes
romich8877 32 M
2  questions
When’s the last time you had a vivid sex dream? - 1/9/2019

Boys and girls ..When’s the last time you had a vivid sex dream??

26 response(s), 41 votes
romich8877 32 M
2  questions
Who gave you your first orgasm? - 1/9/2019

Ok ladys and gentelmens it is time to remember Who gave you your first orgasm?

22 response(s), 31 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
Sex and commercials - 1/9/2019

This site used to have a commercial on comedy central late at night. Nothing too racy, but enough to arouse curiosity. Now we have the commercial for SLING TV. Goes way to close to the line. Kinda hurts my feelings some. If you haven't seen it you need to. Judge for yourself. Are American commercials too sexualized? <br><br> I say a tad.

25 response(s), 43 votes
IOWANSRHOT 54 C
1  question
Is it wrong - 1/8/2019

I sometimes wonder if enjoying others watching my wife is perverted. What do you think

52 response(s), 70 votes
Royston912 44 M
10  questions
Who is this? - 1/8/2019

Who is dis doin' this synthetic type of alpha beta psychedelic funkin'?

21 response(s), 44 votes
hungin928 50 M
1  question
What turns you on - 1/7/2019

Fav position?

49 response(s), 47 votes
Monluster89 34 M
1  question
Exploring - 1/7/2019

Anyone wanna help me explore

23 response(s), 35 votes
Hermaphrodite - 1/7/2019

Just wondering if anyone is or has ever met someone who is a Hermaphrodite

27 response(s), 33 votes
BlackWood567 28 M
2  questions
Have you ever had an opportunity in the past you regret not taking? - 1/7/2019

I'm here again asking a random question for all of you. Every opinion counts honestly.

25 response(s), 39 votes
1kittylikker 73 M
2  questions
hook-ups with old guys - 1/6/2019

Just wondering what the chances are for an old guy with ed problems ever finding someone (or 2) on here for oral sex. I love going down on women and enjoy anyone going down on me.

29 response(s), 48 votes
Bsabo02or3 54 M
2  questions
arnt there any woman outhere that want a personal sex slave/boy toy - 1/5/2019

id like to be a servant to any woman who actually has hot dirty ideas and make them cum alive

23 response(s), 42 votes
Bsabo02or3 54 M
2  questions
arnt there any woman outhere that want a personal sex slave/boy toy - 1/5/2019

id just like to be made to service ladies with a sex drive and dirty minds.

1 response(s), 2 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
How's everyones first weekend of 2019? - 1/5/2019

Alone as usual?

31 response(s), 45 votes
How to know - 1/5/2019

When visiting an adult book and toy store that has video booths in them and you go and check them out..if your interested in joining someone and your alone, how do you know if someone is interested in someone joining them if they are in the booth watching of if your in the booth watching and would not mind someone joining you

20 response(s), 32 votes
losingtheV2019 26 M
1  question
I'm new here how can I improve my profile? - 1/4/2019

Hi like the post says im new here. Without showing my face or going gold, does anybody have any advice on having a good profile?

32 response(s), 46 votes
The most ya cum before it became to much - 1/4/2019

How many times during your sexual activities have you cum before you over did it? Me my fourth time in a three hour periord.

32 response(s), 64 votes
The most ya cum before it became to much - 1/4/2019

How many times during your sexual activities have you cum before you over did it? Me my fourth time in a three hour periord.

1 response(s), 2 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Serious question about - 1/4/2019

how to get a woman to last longer before orgasm. My sex buddy only lasts 5-6 minutes with me and she always comments its not fair she can't make me too. I try slower but only thing that really works is cooling down (which frankly isn't fun for either of us) but then 20 minutes is about her limit and 2 orgasms. So any good way to delay that first orgasm? She's 115 lb and one night ...

28 response(s), 39 votes
Becoming a swinger - 1/4/2019

Im curious for couples that are swingers. How did you or your partner bring up the subject? How did you or your partner take that at first? Im interested in hearing about stories where the request went well and horrible too. <br><br> What do you think is the best way to approach the subject?

20 response(s), 36 votes
KT1207 56 M
2  questions
Straight Guys viewing my Bi-Profile - 1/3/2019

I have recently had several “straight” guys view my profile. Not just a one tome random view, but multiple views over a week span. My profile very blatantly says I’m bisexual and interested in men as well as women, so I figure these “straight” guys just don’t want their profiles listing them as bi. So, I have reached out to a few and on more than one occasion received a response that ...

48 response(s), 67 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
hghahgthbfgb - 1/3/2019

how are you?

19 response(s), 23 votes
520lookin4fun 40 M
3  questions
Pick up lines - 1/2/2019

What is you favorite cheesy pick up line?

31 response(s), 36 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
Young and old..... the thing is... people seek that which will pleasure them.... - 1/2/2019

Not necessarily for the long run, but often enough, a pleasure for the moment [sober or not]. <br><br> A question was asked: Do most older women like younger guys? <br><br> Who would know that for sure?!! The older women who do, will speak up...the older women who don't, will speak up. But , those who say they don't publicly, sometimes ...

23 response(s), 65 votes
231spyder 46 M
4  questions
ongoing MMF , when to let him cum IN her - 1/2/2019

quick question... we have a MMF situation the the other guy has been a nice addition to our fun..... we've felt comfortable with him and plan on keeping it ongoing.... so we're wondering... would allowing him to cum inside her wreck that or make it more passionate going forward?

56 response(s), 78 votes
name change - 1/2/2019

im considering changing my screen name here. after more than ten years on this site and having made lots of friends i think it's time for a change.i feel like my current name isn't very mature and doesn't reflect my personality. would anyone care to give me any serious suggestions? i realize some people are just here to troll and talk shit but i would appreciate the help. ...

16 response(s), 37 votes
wildcatr27 52 F
46  questions
fake pics, different sexual orientation - 1/2/2019

i have seen a lot of stolen pics on peoples profiles over the years, <br><br> sort of get reason, protecting identity etc, <br><br> but recently i have seen straight mens profiles, with gay porno stars pictures as their only ones, when i mention it to them, some say just because, or it is fun. <br><br> so my question is why would you put a picture of a gay ...

35 response(s), 62 votes
2415boxers 64 M
2  questions
Should I invite people to view my blog? - 1/1/2019

I have always wondered wondered if I am being too pushy directing people to view my blog posts?

33 response(s), 53 votes
Happy New Year - 1/1/2019

Hope every one had a great New Year's eve. Would like to wish every one a great new year and hope it is better than last year for you. HAPPY NEW YEAR

18 response(s), 37 votes
Cr4ziiB4bii 43 F
1  question
TO BE A ROBOT OR NOT? - 12/31/2018

Nowadays with the way dating and hooking up has changed, are you someone that feels nothing or do you let your guard down and allow yourself to feel emotions?

32 response(s), 63 votes
Happy New Year - 12/31/2018

Wishing every a sex filled 2019.

10 response(s), 23 votes
Sexualpablo40 42 M
1  question
Cuando uno se siente solo pero no quiere una relación seria? - 12/31/2018

Llevo algunos años solo he tenido parejas sin compromisos pero no me siento preparado o tal vez ya no ame a nadie, no puedo decirle a ninguna palabras de amor y menos ser romántico la verdad no se como hacer cuando me siento solo.

9 response(s), 15 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
HAPPY NEW YEAR!! - 12/31/2018

Happy New Year to one and all. May more sex cum your way in 2019. May the advice lines be relatively troll free in 2019. And other shit like that.

33 response(s), 84 votes
Stars12Dong 53 M
64  questions
Hosting When You Know Your House Is A Disaster... - 12/31/2018

How is it that some people can live in total filth and invite a person over for Fun or just to meet and greet? Maybe it's just me? I'm a Navy Vet. and a Germaphobe so I guess my expectations may be a little much but I have met women at their home or apartment and it smells like urine and clothes all over the floor and the bed they sleep on. I never let them know I'm totally done ...

19 response(s), 37 votes
domeoveragain 53 M
2  questions
Points - 12/30/2018

I answer question after question and never get any points....anyone have that happen?

20 response(s), 35 votes
herbman693 33 M
3  questions
Watching - 12/30/2018

Is It ok if your pets watch you fuck? I don't mind but is wired.

25 response(s), 35 votes
MisterRe101 56 M
1  question
What is the Best way you have brought the New year in ? - 12/30/2018

Most memorable for myself was down the Gold coast dressed up with a lady I met online .Ended up at a surf club , we never paid for drinks and had a great night on the beach afterwards swinging our way into the New year with some new friends .

21 response(s), 37 votes
homie_supp 26 M
1  question
2019 Meet Up - 12/30/2018

Newbie here! Any couples hosting a meet and greet party for the new year? Also advice on how to get the most out of this without paying for a membership would be appreciated. Happy New Year Everyone!

4 response(s), 15 votes
Quick cumming - 12/30/2018

dose it matter if a man finishes to early on a NSA meeting as long as u can get hard and go for a few rounds?

26 response(s), 39 votes
nafurescandy 49 F
3  questions
Quick cum men - 12/30/2018

Can any men help me understand why some men cum so fast? Is it over excitement or just how some men are? Yes I mainly play with men under 30. Is that the downfall? Ive never understood what I need to do different to help it last. Not a fan of two pump guys but I do stay with them regardless hoping they will relax. Any advice?

53 response(s), 66 votes
shadow11290 48 M
1  question
FWB versus NSA what is better, and what is actually the difference - 12/29/2018

FWB versus NSA what is better, and what is actually the difference

23 response(s), 44 votes
buddy98111111 54 M
8  questions
sex - 12/29/2018

why can t some be real ?

15 response(s), 42 votes
kennyrogerseyes3 25 M
1  question
What are your New Year's Resolutions? - 12/29/2018

Sexual, obviously. What places, acts, and/or people would you like to check off your Fuck-et list this year?

12 response(s), 27 votes
Messenger - 12/29/2018

Hi is anyone else got messenger issues today ?

23 response(s), 42 votes
Advice for a newbie? - 12/28/2018

hey everyone, i'm new here. any advice on how to get the most out of this site?

27 response(s), 37 votes
BWcoupleou812 43 C
5  questions
Penis size? - 12/28/2018

What is your favorite size penis? In inches had you rather have 4 or 8? Or how big?

23 response(s), 46 votes
albanynycouple51 63 C
8  questions
meet greets events partys where they list em on site? - 12/28/2018

many sites list meet greets events partys ect. does this site list any and where to find em or post new 1s on here ?

21 response(s), 43 votes
albanynycouple51 63 C
8  questions
meet greets events partys where they list em on site? - 12/28/2018

many sites list meet greets events partys ect. does this site list any and where to find em or post new 1s on here ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
_iDan_ 32 M
1  question
Sexualidade - 12/28/2018

como se chama a tara, desejo por Transexuais? Sou Hetero, mais Transex me atraem muito.

8 response(s), 21 votes
Why does Xmatch block adult content? - 12/28/2018

So I just made a new account today because I wanted to check things out on here again, and for some reason all nude images are blocked. A few months ago that wasn't an issue, but now it seems backwards. I didn't join this site to find my soulmate, so what gives? Also, what ever happened to being able to use paypal?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Howdy97800 25 M
1  question
Anal Virgin - 12/28/2018

Hey, so i'm completely new to the gay scene and need advice on a few things. Firstly should i take my first cock raw (the only reason i want to is because it is so hot )? What can i do to make the top a happy camper? How do you suck cock well? And should i participate in a raw gangbang for my first time (i've met someone who wants to do that)?

15 response(s), 41 votes
bellendringers2 53 GC
4  questions
sexy trannies - 12/28/2018

why does a big cock sticking out from under a little sexy skirt with stoking and suspenders drive me wild ?

12 response(s), 31 votes
bellendringers2 53 GC
4  questions
sexy trannies - 12/28/2018

why does a big cock sticking out from under a little sexy skirt with stoking and suspenders drive me wild ?

0 response(s), 2 votes
bellendringers2 53 GC
4  questions
sexy trannies - 12/28/2018

why does a big cock sticking out from under a little sexy skirt with stoking and suspenders drive me wild ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
bellendringers2 53 GC
4  questions
sexy trannies - 12/28/2018

why does a big cock sticking out from under a little sexy skirt with stoking and suspenders drive me wild ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
jjcooper101 30 M
1  question
how to make cams how better for guys ? - 12/28/2018

i was curious about this topic, i have been doing cams and i get lucky same times with more then 10 watchers. In many regards i was just looking to see if there is same advice to make a cam show better beside jerking off.

16 response(s), 24 votes
Nixx525 34 M
5  questions
What do you like about oral sex? Giving and receiving.. - 12/28/2018

Let me know what you like about getting and receiving oral sex.. I love eating pussy, love when a girl cums over and over and I love when a girl really enjoys sucking my dick and asks me to cum in her mouth or on her face

33 response(s), 54 votes
desiresexnow2015 64 F
2  questions
Should I "friend" someone on Facebook that i met on this site? - 12/27/2018

I just looked at my Facebook account and under friend request were two men that I met on this site. I did not give either of them my last name. I try not to post anything very personal on Facebook

29 response(s), 31 votes
iphone20x 32 M
1  question
masterbate - 12/27/2018

do you like to masturbate ?

22 response(s), 37 votes
Kinky sex - 12/27/2018

What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done during sex?

17 response(s), 36 votes
Dommes - 12/27/2018

Have you ever had an experience with a domme? Did you enjoy it? What did you do?

7 response(s), 17 votes
Pegging - 12/27/2018

How many people have ever let a woman fuck them with a strapon?

46 response(s), 50 votes
markuk86 55 M
1  question
If I upgrade to gold will the IM start working properly?? - 12/26/2018

Simple question. If I upgrade to gold membership will the IM stop glitching and will members start to actually see my chat requests??

40 response(s), 44 votes
Abraxan2 31 M
1  question
What do you do if you don't like a gift - 12/26/2018

What do you do about a Christmas gift if you don't want to hurt their feelings?

21 response(s), 23 votes
dangbitches 58 F
35  questions
Christmas Gift - 12/26/2018

Did you get anything sexy for Christmas?

36 response(s), 51 votes
48fun 76 C
14  questions
Does anyone know what undetectable means? - 12/26/2018

Was looking at a profile and it said they were looking for undetectable and I have never heard of that?

24 response(s), 29 votes
assmag48 39 M
1  question
cam - 12/26/2018

if i was on cam what do people want to see.....whats hot?

20 response(s), 30 votes
Mendi2018 55 M
1  question
Do guys in rock bands get laid more - 12/25/2018

After a 20 yr marriage I will finally be able to test the old theory " do rockers get more action than the normal man

23 response(s), 29 votes
undermythong 43 F
51  questions
My hot list. - 12/25/2018

Any other members have a problem with there Hot List I have a lot of them in my list the ones I added but then I go to it and look and there were over 100 that I never added I remove them but they come right back. Anybody else have that problem?

29 response(s), 56 votes
newcurious1234 45 M
1  question
Male to Female Ratio? - 12/25/2018

What do yall think is the ration on this site? Guessing 90% men?

27 response(s), 51 votes
Happy Holiday to all - 12/25/2018

I know this is the advice section but would like to wish everyone happy holidays and enjoy the day.

11 response(s), 23 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
Hey y'all - 12/24/2018

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE. May your stockings be filled with whatever and may the IM work with no glitches.

26 response(s), 62 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
not my finest - 12/24/2018

i admit it. long lines, the stress. (sigh) a woman cut in front of me. i said all the pleasantries of excuse me, i was next, i've been waiting, standing right here. first, she said i wasn't next in line. and then she says she didn't see me. really?? i'm calm, using all my adult words. finally she says SHE DIDN'T CARE. that set me off and so i called her a cunt. it didn't ...

21 response(s), 45 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Merry Christmas everyone.... - 12/24/2018

... hope everyone of the regulars in here enjoy playing with themselves once again all alone on Christmas day. A lot of you must be very used to it by now................

10 response(s), 30 votes
Blake55987 31 M
1  question
Responding to messages with standard Membership - 12/24/2018

Well Im kinda stuck with a standard membership until my payment processes. It doesn’t let me do anything at all. I hate it. I thought you were supposed to be able to read and respond to messages that you received, but nope. It’s covered up by the same shit telling me to “upgrade your account to view this message”. Any one know anything?

19 response(s), 36 votes
Nixx525 34 M
5  questions
Where is the craziest place you've had sex? - 12/24/2018

Tell me the craziest place it craziest time you've had sex. Mine would have to be having sex at work.

44 response(s), 49 votes
advntrseekers2 58 C
10  questions
What is the big hang up on a face picture? - 12/23/2018

I totally get not having a face picture in your profile and not just sending it out to anyone. After chatting and e-mails and establishing a connection, I don't think it's unreasonable to want to exchange face pictures. The same g-rated type face picture that is already all over social media. We're ready to meet anyways, I could snap a picture of you then if I had some evil ...

61 response(s), 65 votes
Mothmanpower43 27 M
1  question
Do you feel ashamed being on this site? - 12/22/2018

I feel ashamed being here and have deleted, like, 4 accounts so far. What if people I know see me? What if people disown me for being horny, but not wanting a relationship?

15 response(s), 23 votes
LetFuck204 33 M
1  question
when? - 12/21/2018

When is considerate to release your full kinkyside

28 response(s), 39 votes
dongagl69 57 M
1  question
where are the ladies looking for DP - 12/21/2018

are there any ladies in 619, looking for fun and DP experience???

14 response(s), 36 votes
norsepaddyburns1 57 M
1  question
Real or fake - 12/21/2018

I see lots of user names the start out with "rm_" followed by a variety of names. It seems odd that so many start out with the rm_. What does the rm_ stand for, anyone know, I am very curious. Thanks in advance to anyone who is able to share their ideas on this. <br><br> Scott

18 response(s), 43 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
What did you get your - 12/20/2018

significant other or best play partner for Christmas? I got her what she wanted Victoria's Secret lingerie. Letting me photograph her in it on Xmas day so that's a plus should up the kink factor. <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> ( I know some of you will grouse this isn't advice worthy but it's Christmas lay the bullying aside in the interest of love ...

26 response(s), 46 votes
paypayno1 23 F
1  question
someone come chat ? - 12/20/2018

needing someone to come talk dirty to me tonight. im a bit lonely

5 response(s), 5 votes
Vanislandvibes 37 M
2  questions
How do you use this site - 12/20/2018

So I'm a free.memeber and it's hard as hell to use this site. Any tips

31 response(s), 39 votes
Chucho6469 42 M
1  question
fake pp - 12/20/2018

no fake members please o pp ask for im wtf

0 response(s), 0 votes
Palidin6999 62 M
5  questions
Young Women??? - 12/20/2018

Have you men my age been getting looks, flirts and notes frm 20 smething ladies? It occurred to me that this has to be sme sort of a sm. After all what to Ladies this age want to do with men my age? and Oh, ya frm different countries and states.

43 response(s), 62 votes
redncole6969 40 C
1  question
Newportrichey - 12/19/2018

Who is in Pasco county n wanna fuck tonight?

16 response(s), 44 votes
Naughtytabomom1 51 F
1  question
Points - 12/18/2018

Why do I do things on the points list and I don’t get the points? I have tried to update things just to get the reset the points....

42 response(s), 76 votes
dazeafc469 40 M
1  question
Chat? - 12/18/2018

What compel you to answer a chat request fastest?

32 response(s), 40 votes
CedrickDickory 39 M
1  question
Playing outside your usual orientation - 12/18/2018

Straight folks - how do you feel about getting down and dirty with someone of your same sex? Have you done it? Did you like it? Have you not done it but want to? <br><br> Gay folks - same question as above, but with the opposite sex. Are you to try out the other team's equipment?

23 response(s), 56 votes
Vanislandvibes 37 M
2  questions
How are you enjoying it? - 12/17/2018

How are you liking this site?

34 response(s), 48 votes
Swinging wife - 12/17/2018

How do I get my wife to swing?

27 response(s), 49 votes
HardDaddy45 49 M
1  question
What is your favorite wild kinks girls??? - 12/17/2018

Tell me your wildest, sexiest, kinks ladies. Spice it up sum! Nothing original or boring. And..... Go!

14 response(s), 33 votes
StrongBlakDick4U 41 M
6  questions
What is to Young or to Old? - 12/17/2018

I recently had the privilege of being contacted by two seasoned (mature) women on Xmatch, who live in my state. One woman was in her 60's. The other was in her 70s. <br><br> Things to be moving right along and then the dreaded, "age" question came up. If I am able to help you orgasm, why would you say I am to young? <br><br> What is to young?

35 response(s), 46 votes
StrongBlakDick4U 41 M
6  questions
What is to Young or to Old? - 12/17/2018

I recently had the privilege of being contacted by two seasoned (mature) women on Xmatch, who live in my state. One woman was in her 60's. The other was in her 70s. <br><br> Things to be moving right along and then the dreaded, "age" question came up. If I am able to help you orgasm, why would you say I am to young? <br><br> What is to young?

1 response(s), 1 vote
StrongBlakDick4U 41 M
6  questions
What is to Young or to Old? - 12/17/2018

I recently had the privilege of being contacted by two seasoned (mature) women on Xmatch, who live in my state. One woman was in her 60's. The other was in her 70s. <br><br> Things to be moving right along and then the dreaded, "age" question came up. If I am able to help you orgasm, why would you say I am to young? <br><br> What is to young?

5 response(s), 4 votes
StrongBlakDick4U 41 M
6  questions
What is to Young or to Old? - 12/17/2018

I recently had the privilege of being contacted by two seasoned (mature) women on Xmatch, who live in my state. One woman was in her 60's. The other was in her 70s. <br><br> Things to be moving right along and then the dreaded, "age" question came up. If I am able to help you orgasm, why would you say I am to young? <br><br> What is to young?

1 response(s), 2 votes
mufdiver69er2 63 M
16  questions
anyone else notice - 12/17/2018

the site crash between 5 and 530 pm eastern yesterday? first the wouldnt refresh, then went down..then the activty feed went down..then the site crashed and wouldnt refresh..then gradually came back..anyone else?

20 response(s), 28 votes
masterfulldaddy 58 M
1  question
What happened to just FWB? - 12/17/2018

My experience, on here and elsewhere, is that women suddenly don't want FWB. What they want is a guy who will be a "generous" FWB. My question, when did this start happening?

26 response(s), 27 votes
aim2pleaseu952 71 T
10  questions
Profile photos - 12/17/2018

I have noticed that many members have no profile photos while many others have several hundred. I only have 6 currently. How many do you feel is a good number? Why and what kind?

22 response(s), 27 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
What do you call a Chinese guy who flies an airplane? - 12/15/2018

................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

21 response(s), 13 votes
Sex position - 12/15/2018

What is the waterfall sex position during intercourse

28 response(s), 63 votes
smallmannoel 29 M
1  question
help - 12/14/2018

how to get token without a credit card?

12 response(s), 17 votes
does this really vgo anywhere? - 12/14/2018

Seriously is this going to even go anywhere as a tool to find someone?

22 response(s), 39 votes
does this really vgo anywhere? - 12/14/2018

Seriously is this going to even go anywhere as a tool to find someone?

10 response(s), 0 votes
does this really vgo anywhere? - 12/14/2018

Seriously is this going to even go anywhere as a tool to find someone?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Goldenman56x 67 M
7  questions
Do people just like to chat here to have a fantasy and few like to meet? - 12/14/2018

Some talk and plan to meet and seem to be worked up, then do not meet

41 response(s), 62 votes
FistyP 34 M
1  question
What do women most like in bed - 12/14/2018

just wondering what some some of your thoughts

36 response(s), 48 votes
BlackWood567 28 M
2  questions
Which do you prefer? Lights on or off? - 12/13/2018

I know this is a random question. I know that a lot of people have their own opinion about it. For me personally, either way is fine.

58 response(s), 58 votes
mrwhatthe 69 M
5  questions
How many ladies enjoy or would like to enjoy pegging a guy? - 12/13/2018

I have never had this happen. Did have a gf that loved playing with my ass, filling it with beads, but we never got to the actual pegging part. (probably because she was more into getting some extra big cocks for herself with me) lol. but, always thought about it and haven't done it. Just looking for your (ladies) input so to speak about this subject matter. Haven't done it but would ...

20 response(s), 44 votes
Which do you prefer - 12/13/2018

Ladies after having sex do you lay in bed cuddling or run to the bathroom. I prefer you laying and cuddling with me for a while.

14 response(s), 21 votes
Palidin6999 62 M
5  questions
The Erotic Stories. - 12/13/2018

I enjoy reading the erotic stories. Most of them are very good, for being home written stories. A lot of the stories are have multiple chapters. Is there a way to get all of the stories that are published in different chapters by the same author on the same page. Right now I am having to look through all of the different stories to find the next one in the series that I am reading and some times ...

8 response(s), 14 votes
Points.... - 12/12/2018

Is there an easy way to earn points without having to buy them?

21 response(s), 32 votes
Points.... - 12/12/2018

Is there an easy way to earn points without having to buy them?

3 response(s), 0 votes
walkinbanana2 44 M
2  questions
Just for points.... - 12/11/2018

This is the real reason for these, and voting, right?

31 response(s), 69 votes
CuriousInCali89 30 F
1  question
What's the best way to get/earn points on here? - 12/11/2018

I'm hesitant to cam (new member and still a little shy). What are some easy ways to earn points?

21 response(s), 63 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
hello.................. is everybody... - 12/11/2018

...having fun? <br><br>

15 response(s), 39 votes
justseekfun69 55 M
1  question
meeting in a public place first time - 12/11/2018

just after a general consensus here! do you think that its best to arrange a first time meet at a pub, bar or coffee shop for a first meet?

40 response(s), 61 votes
Hairy or bald - 12/11/2018

Ok guys, do you like hairy pussy and cocks or bald?

57 response(s), 70 votes
StrippinOn 33 M
1  question
Looking for some fun chats and exchanges 😈 - 12/11/2018

What are some of the best ways to get others to actually respond on here so won't just be waste of my chat msgs?

19 response(s), 35 votes
crafttinkerer 41 M
4  questions
How many are out there are on tumblr? - 12/10/2018

Tumblr is no longer allowing adult material on the site. How many out there will be affected when the dec 17th deadline arrives?

20 response(s), 28 votes
gDfranc 75 M
5  questions
GF gets iratation - 12/10/2018

my GF says she get irritation when I eat her , ,, ,I usually have had straight whiskey or vodka before so mouth is germ free …. advice cause like eat pussy and she liked , ,but not now , ,she is dry , ,aka needing KY or ??

23 response(s), 28 votes
GoddessGirl 44 F
1  question
Sex addiction... - 12/9/2018

can someone addicted to sex ever truly love someone?...

54 response(s), 114 votes
Women of Xmatch do you have any advice on how to get wife to participate in 3some? - 12/9/2018

My wife of over 40 years has a fantasy of being in a 3some with another man. We talk about this scenario and a couple of others during sex which is very seldom nowadays. I have made the offer of a mfm 3some on several occasions as this is something i would also tremendously enjoy. I also feel that if we were to have a 3some it just might help my wife as she is having problems with being able to ...

34 response(s), 42 votes
DrDick4you 35 M
1  question
is there a female or two who wanna take my bum's virginity with a strap on - 12/8/2018

this is a fantasy of mine that just recently i've become very interested in making it happen. i've never fingerd my ass so im very very tight. <br><br> ---??? how do i go about searching for a woman and A FEMALE ONLY GUYS . UNLESS YOUR THE SEXIEST TRANNY IN THE WORLD AND I MEAN THAT OK. ID RATHER HAVE THE REAL DEAL BUT FINDING A SEXY TRANNY ON HERE IS VERY SLIM OKAY

30 response(s), 51 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Little boy blew.... - 12/8/2018

...HEY.... he needed the... <br><br>

23 response(s), 49 votes
I just don’t get it Online dating - 12/8/2018

Asking a lady for a drink or something to eat is like the worst thing you can do online. I will let you know now I have no clue when this happened. Your here to meet and hookup right? Well it don’t have to be hookup on the first date, (But we still can dream ladies) what is the big deal going to a public place and enjoying the date. It’s a free meal or drink anyone else feel like what in the ...

23 response(s), 36 votes
mufdiver69er2 63 M
16  questions
heres a new one - 12/8/2018

twice today iv been paged on the IM chat..nothing unusual there, but..it was into existing chats between others that had not paged me into it.just randomly..never had this glitch before...anyone else?

26 response(s), 31 votes
hardanddeep0 57 M
2  questions
The IM - 12/8/2018

Does anyone else find the IM to be inconsistent? only sends some of your msgs, or your msgs arrive as blank screens? with a site as big as this I would expect better quality in the services. Feel free to add your peeves here.

26 response(s), 39 votes
Otis_Good 71 M
457  questions
? - 12/7/2018

I was looking at Tender's woman post and it says he has posted 19 questions so to refresh my memory I clicked on the 19 questions asked . What happened is rather puzzling the site says he has not posted any questions only the one on the board . Is it a glitch ? I asked myself . So I went and tried to follow a few more that has asked more than one question .How long has this be going on ...

8 response(s), 27 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
A question... then a reflextion - 12/7/2018

When I scrollin through member activity, I sometines comments. Sometines I be viewin a profiles. I notice a lot of you sayed straight, but some you status suggets otherwise. To each his own, #blahblahblah. Do you. Do you gets upsets when only mens respond? I would but have been tolds in the pats that it be meants foe Mens only. Help me outs fellas. Been that confusing? <br><br> ...

30 response(s), 36 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Gift giving etiquette - 12/7/2018

saw a couple people questioning why whether the other person would buy you one in return is a consideration. They seemed to be negative about that. <br><br> 1. To paint a complete picture of the situation. <br><br> <br><br> 2. It isn't so cut and dried. I absolutely embarrassed more like mortified if someone gives me a gift and I didn't get them one. ...

22 response(s), 28 votes
Rkhash 27 M
1  question
Penis size - 12/6/2018

So I am just for people's opinion whether my my penis size is small or not because once a lady messaged me here on Xmatch that I have a small cock after hearing I was really upset I really want to know whether my size is normal or not

30 response(s), 47 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Should you - 12/6/2018

buy a present for a fuck buddy for Christmas? To clarify a bit we only meet for sex she asks me to bring her things from time to time like alcohol or pizza and a 2 liter of sprite. Have a feeling if I buy her something it is unlikely she will get me a gift in return. Known her about 8 months if that makes a difference in your calculus. <br><br> <br><br> Added in edit: I ...

34 response(s), 41 votes
EccentricLover18 19 M
4  questions
Who are you? - 12/6/2018

I get a lot of out of state women who claim to be visiting that message me. We talk for a good while, share a picture or two and all seems well. However, eventually they just disappear. Most people chock it up to "That's the IM bugging out" but I think it's worse than that. I've had my fair share of older men try and talk to me and some of those were on female accounts ...

14 response(s), 17 votes
4PassionandLust 54 M
2  questions
When you are orgasming. - 12/6/2018

This question is for the Ladies. *not looking for generalized advice* I am interested in learning from hearing your personal preference. When you are orgasming, what do you want your partner to do (or not do) in regards to speeding up, slowing down, clit stimulation.. does... don'ts..... or just keep doing what they are doing because that is what got you there? For example: my ...

16 response(s), 27 votes
Johnyhotstick4u 46 M
2  questions
Let's fuck and fuck all night long - 12/5/2018

Who wants to fuck and fuck me good all night long???

15 response(s), 55 votes
Cum - 12/5/2018

Anyone wanna suck the cum from me as I yell things at you...

37 response(s), 78 votes
How old is to old? - 12/4/2018

If you are over 80, widowed, unable to get real hard should you just forget about sex or ?

48 response(s), 67 votes
OversizebradLoad 36 M
1  question
Promotion - 12/4/2018

Gold free trail.Considering

17 response(s), 36 votes
crafttinkerer 41 M
4  questions
What do I do about a non show for a meet up? - 12/4/2018

Another member & I agreed to meet up, out at a neutral place. (neither their or my place) I was there but they didn't show up. No email explaining, before or after until after I contacted the member & really had to drag it out. Gave another chance, & the same thing happened again. Still no word from them as to what happened this last time. Do I give this member another shot? Or is ...

40 response(s), 52 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Anyone up for............... - 12/3/2018

........... chat??

14 response(s), 49 votes
Help? - 12/3/2018

not to sure what it is that doing that is so out of place or wrong or off-putting that women find me undesirable. Talk to me. Thanks in advance for anything positive offered. ... OK.... thanks for all the feedback. (grin) I sure stirred things up with this question. For those who posted, please check the new and improved

34 response(s), 35 votes
1seeking1 58 F
33  questions
How do I get more pleasure? - 12/2/2018

First off thank you to all member who respectfully share their experiences. <br><br> Recently met very interesting member, few blogs written and still lots of smoldering thoughts. <br><br> Patience does pay off. <br><br> <br><br> Now how to get more pleasure ? <br><br> I already expressed a very eager interest in his assortment of toys, ...

48 response(s), 122 votes
1seeking1 58 F
33  questions
How do I get more pleasure? - 12/2/2018

First off thank you to all member who respectfully share their experiences. <br><br> Recently met very interesting member, few blogs written and still lots of smoldering thoughts. <br><br> Patience does pay off. <br><br> <br><br> Now how to get more pleasure ? <br><br> I already expressed a very eager interest in his assortment of toys, ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Anyonr up for romance in Pune India this December - 12/2/2018

Are there any open minded woman in India Pune looking for romance at all?

8 response(s), 16 votes
DontWeAll2121 43 M
1  question
So what do you want for Christmas? - 12/2/2018

Really, what do you want for Christmas? It can be anything!

43 response(s), 49 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Christmas/Holiday jokes... - 12/1/2018

Do you have a good one or even a groaner? I'll start it off. Why was Santa upset? Because he only comes once a year.

19 response(s), 66 votes
LookN4Threesum2 52 M
2  questions
What's your secret to meeting a Bi Couple?? - 12/1/2018

I have met a few supposedly bi couple's on here..played with one bi couple..I don't think she liked her hubby playing bi It was a HOT night regardless..just would like to meet a REAL bi couple where BOTH enjoy bi play...Any pointers? Thanks

0 response(s), 1 vote
How about them Cowboys? - 12/1/2018

A month ago everyone is calling to fire the coach and dump the QB, With 4 games left in the season, the are now on top of their division. <br><br> Hubby still like the Eagles but they may not make the playoffs. Who are you rooting for to make it to the big dance? <br><br> Enjoy the weekend everyone. ...

31 response(s), 63 votes
tomjoad67 56 M
8  questions
Tranding photo? - 12/1/2018

What's going on with Xmatch's email notifications? I used to get emails saying trending photo or video and when I clicked on it, it would direct me to that photo or video. Now they all say tranding photo or video and I am unable to click on it to view it. Instead if I click view all I get directed to the home page of Xmatch. Everything else looks the same but this is an odd glitch. I'm ...

15 response(s), 27 votes
Hardtoholdtime2 64 M
2  questions
too old for fun? - 11/30/2018

I often talk to woman on here but a lot say I too . I to

43 response(s), 56 votes
Billmoo2308 27 M
1  question
sex - 11/29/2018

sex is great and delicious for getting dick and pussy taste like the flavor of love

16 response(s), 31 votes
520lookin4fun 40 M
3  questions
Posting for points, but since we're here... - 11/29/2018

What gives you the best orgasms?

24 response(s), 48 votes
Mr2please2 62 M
2  questions
Why is IM so fucked up?..15 - 11/29/2018

15 yrs ago Yahoo worked a hell of alot better and it was totally free WTF is goig on here?

28 response(s), 36 votes
Mr2please2 62 M
2  questions
Why is IM so fucked up?..15 - 11/29/2018

15 yrs ago Yahoo worked a hell of alot better and it was totally free WTF is goig on here?

2 response(s), 1 vote
asmith68164 61 M
1  question
What is of interest? - 11/28/2018

What do you find of interest? Kinks? Hobbies? Work?

27 response(s), 56 votes
bigblackman21221 48 M
25  questions
POOF! - 11/27/2018

I've noticed that for most of the day when I click on a link for my profile I can't see it. I just see a blank page. I have friends that use a computer and when trying to view my profile, they can't see it either unless they switch to the mobile version of the site. Mobile users can see it without any issues. I also noticed that the issue is not isolated and only seems to be ...

40 response(s), 47 votes
radar4758 65 M
1  question
messenger - 11/27/2018

why does no one ever reply to messages

39 response(s), 44 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
A reflection. Then a question. - 11/27/2018

When I scroll through member activity, I sometimes comment. Sometimes I view a profile. I notice a lot of you say straight, but some your statuses suggest otherwise. To each his own, #blahblahblah. Do you. Do you get upset when only men respond? I would but have been told in the past that it was meant for Men only. Help me out fellas. Is that confusing?

34 response(s), 70 votes
Should I, should I not? - 11/27/2018

I have made it my rule not to go out with married men unless they are in an open relationship. Being cheated on hurts and I don't want to be the cause. But the guys that I like are mostly married. I like their profile, more respectful, suave bullshiter and physicaly attractive to me. I want a taste of the forbidden fruit. Maybe just once. Should I?

73 response(s), 96 votes
Pieter0072014 45 M
1  question
Santas toy factory!? - 11/26/2018

Heres a question for the ladies and the guys in the know. <br><br> Shopping for a toy as a gift to my playmate for xmas, what do you sugguest?

30 response(s), 57 votes
HsvnDC 43 F
2  questions
Gifts - 11/26/2018

What would you like for Christmas?

42 response(s), 41 votes
HsvnDC 43 F
2  questions
Gifts - 11/26/2018

What would you like for Christmas?

1 response(s), 1 vote
undermythong 43 F
51  questions
If you could only watch. - 11/26/2018

You only get to choose one of the two but you only get to watch it with your hands tied up---Would you rather watch two women in a hot 69 or watch a women give two guys a blow job?

71 response(s), 98 votes
TristanTerneny 30 M
1  question
Whats the best way to look for something here without a membership? - 11/26/2018

We have all been there before and I'm sure all of us have been frugal with our money before. So my question is pretty simple. What are the best ways to go looking for a date, hook up, or life partner on this site without using the premium feature?

22 response(s), 39 votes
Gtown1244 39 M
1  question
Why so hard - 11/25/2018

Seems tough to get a reply, guess hard just being a guy

24 response(s), 31 votes
crafttinkerer 41 M
4  questions
Why is it so hard for some to understand? - 11/25/2018

I am a bi guy. I know that may drive some away. Others seem to flock to it. Most people have in their profile what/who they are looking for. I personally have a age cap, yes I know that would exclude many, but I don't feel comfortable playing with people my parents age. My question is why would some guys (mostly), keep coming back to my profile when I have posted, IMed, & messaged them ...

23 response(s), 39 votes
crafttinkerer 41 M
4  questions
Why is it so hard for some to understand? - 11/25/2018

I am a bi guy. I know that may drive some away. Others seem to flock to it. Most people have in their profile what/who they are looking for. I personally have a age cap, yes I know that would exclude many, but I don't feel comfortable playing with people my parents age. My question is why would some guys (mostly), keep coming back to my profile when I have posted, IMed, & messaged them ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Otis_Good 71 M
457  questions
massage oil - 11/25/2018

I am looking for an oil for massage that doesn't arm and a leg .. coconut is to sweet smelling any suggestions ? <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> ...

33 response(s), 31 votes
How many ladies think they can handle The Slouch? - 11/25/2018

Laaaadies. <br><br> <br><br> It’s your lucky day. <br><br> <br><br> The slouch is back, and for a limited time, I’m willing to my time to a very select few ladies for the chance to get it on with the Slouch. <br><br> Do you think you got it takes <br><br> to get down and dirty with <br><br> ...

32 response(s), 90 votes
BE_REAL559 25 M
1  question
who wants to play with me - 11/25/2018

girls only please .

22 response(s), 39 votes
desiresexnow2015 64 F
2  questions
Open Marriage or Closed - 11/25/2018

Religion had a lot to do with how I saw things but given the chance for a do-over, I think I would prefer an open marriage to divorce. On partner or the other tends to cheat so isn't an open marriage better? Which do you think is best? Why?

24 response(s), 36 votes
so many guys want head, but no one can host, or they flake - 11/24/2018

ok, i get the whole, 'dont want to get caught, need to be discreet, yadda yadda, stuff' but dang, everyone talks a good game, but then it dies and you never hear from them. on the flip side, there are a few that dont seem to get that those specific people i am not into. <br><br> so aside from the mind numbing repitition, whats a great way to get men to commit to getting head?

19 response(s), 27 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
Advice for the young males and some of the older less confident.... - 11/24/2018

Never ever ask: Any women willing to try safe sex with a virgin like me? Part of being a man, becoming a man, is to project confidence.... you don't "ASK" women if they'll have sex with you... You "Tell" the woman whom YOU CHOOSE, that you want to have sex with HER. By seeking a woman's response to your desire, this way, she will get a more confident vibe off you, ...

19 response(s), 49 votes
champ3702 49 M
1  question
Black Friday - 11/24/2018

How much did you spend???

17 response(s), 21 votes
Thick or long you have to choose? - 11/24/2018

Let me know which is most important.

19 response(s), 29 votes
undermythong 43 F
51  questions
Verses in songs that could mean sexual things. - 11/24/2018

Can you name some verses in songs that could be sexual? I have a few here --Bob Seeger---Women have come women have gone meaning women have cum women have gone bi---Come on Eileen---meaning someone shot his load on her---Jackson Brown --get up and do it again --he got another hard on. Lets hear some more good ones.

32 response(s), 43 votes
Would love to get to know some women, but all chats are ignored. - 11/24/2018

Is there something wrong with this cite? I am new and have not had any success finding a woman to chat with. Thanks in advance.

13 response(s), 14 votes
thisguyshard 22 M
1  question
Dont understand for sure! - 11/23/2018

Hey everyone super out oging genuine dude not looking to just fuck and leave honestly just looking for a good time! but im not having any luck on this site i wanna for the gold account i just dont feel like its worth it! if anyone can help me out or any girls want a guy that will treat her like she should be let me know just not sure what to do do!!

21 response(s), 41 votes
massage - 11/23/2018

keep getting asked to watch porn and massage, then given times tht re canceled or when I have time get messages sprinkled throughout day. Whats with this guy?

15 response(s), 27 votes
Xxsteele141813 20 M
1  question
What should I do? - 11/22/2018

I recently chatted with this couple, both are in their 50's and wanna have me over this weekend on Saturday. The wife told me her husband has always wanted to see her fuck a young man and so she spoke to me about it and really beyond interested in this and wanna go.. What do you all think? should I meet up with them?

35 response(s), 51 votes
Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
Wanna play with daddy gay - 11/22/2018

I’m horny wanna play with older daddy

17 response(s), 32 votes
Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
Wanna play with daddy gay - 11/22/2018

I’m horny wanna play with older daddy

2 response(s), 1 vote
Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
Wanna play with daddy gay - 11/22/2018

I’m horny wanna play with older daddy

1 response(s), 1 vote
Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
Who likes to suck cock - 11/22/2018

I wanna suck dick tonight

13 response(s), 32 votes
Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
Who likes to suck cock - 11/22/2018

I wanna suck dick tonight

0 response(s), 0 votes
Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
Who likes to suck cock - 11/22/2018

I wanna suck dick tonight

0 response(s), 1 vote
Nixx525 34 M
5  questions
Do women like to sit on a guys face? - 11/22/2018

I'd like to know cause I love that shit lol and I feel like I have to ask more than it's offered..

23 response(s), 39 votes
bjb777 63 M
4  questions
Turkey day - 11/22/2018

Happy thanksgiving to every one on the AL....... ...

12 response(s), 20 votes
DTrap1021 54 C
1  question
Women Who Have Had there ASS Eaten and Licked. How was it? - 11/22/2018

How do women feel about getting their asses licked and sucked? My husband has been into this fetish of turning me over doggie style or pinning my legs back over my head and as he’s eating my pussy he moves and starts going to town. As he’s licking my ass he is going up and down, side to side, around in a circle, kissing, sucking . Then he takes his hands and spreads my anus wide as he get ...

28 response(s), 82 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
Bling - 11/22/2018

Who's got Thanksgiving bling? Let us see it!

17 response(s), 25 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
Hey ya'll - 11/22/2018

HAPPY THANKSGIVING. The American one.

20 response(s), 32 votes
Top fan points? - 11/22/2018

How long do your tipped points last before Xmatch deletes them?

7 response(s), 18 votes
Top fan points? - 11/22/2018

How long do your tipped points last before Xmatch deletes them?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Top fan points? - 11/22/2018

How long do your tipped points last before Xmatch deletes them?

0 response(s), 0 votes
AntiqueLover2018 71 F
1  question
Favorite photos button - 11/21/2018

I am not able to save any favorite photos, the favorite button isn't working, has anyone else experienced this. Thank you.

17 response(s), 37 votes
Ray__97 27 M
1  question
Any Advice on meeting someone on here😄 - 11/20/2018

Hi my name is Ray😊 just made this about a week and a half ago & still no luck meeting someone to do “it” with on here yet, any advice for that?😂 lol it might be a little harder for me since I don’t have Gold rn honestly I just wanted to try this out before spending money on here👍🏽 I’ve gotten a few messages but I can’t read them unfortunately, had a couple of fake ...

36 response(s), 42 votes
arynsynz1909 36 M
1  question
Flirty - 11/19/2018

What is it women really look for on this website in a man she really wants to chat up and possibly meet??

18 response(s), 46 votes
輪姦レイプ - 11/19/2018

輪姦レイプ gangbangrape 強姦魔 testing

0 response(s), 0 votes
pleasureseeke581 39 M
1  question
cam sex - 11/19/2018

HOW DO I GET M WIFE TO HAVE CAM SEX

39 response(s), 56 votes
Holiday sex - 11/19/2018

How many have had sex under or just around the Christmas tree? It used to be a tradition at my place until age got in the way.. Luck now to get a blowjob at the tree.

19 response(s), 33 votes
Guapoydotado4 45 M
1  question
Hola - 11/18/2018

Una pregunta qué es más rico dar o recibir sexo oral a mí me produce más placer dar lo que revivirlo ustedes que opinan

10 response(s), 13 votes
Am i wrong to feel political correctness has gone way to far? - 11/18/2018

i'm watching peoples lives be ruined, smeared, destroyed over inter personal behavior that has gone viral. mention black face, "your done", the "n" word, go into hiding.... where does it end. am i just old and stuck in the past or isn't it time to stop it, to realize we're all human and people sometimes do or say things that others might not think is ...

41 response(s), 68 votes
christmas is coming again, how do you feel about it, love it, hate it, don't care? - 11/18/2018

i personally have come to despise it, everyone's hand out, bah humbug. crowds everywhere, false good cheer, and the fucking xmas music. oh god, deafeningly atrocious. <br><br> and what does it all lead up to, months of crushing debt and the horrible letdown when you realize it was all for naught. <br><br> so, how do you feel about it?

28 response(s), 32 votes
Hot69funz 39 M
1  question
Soup - 11/18/2018

Anyone have any good soup recipes?

15 response(s), 23 votes
mufdiver69er2 63 M
16  questions
i'll be in the garage - 11/17/2018

a lot of us found out today through a blog post that one of our usual posters here has passed.he was wd-40 w. i found his advice to be one of the few i could really respect as being common-sensible and no b-s.since this is the advice line here is my question..what i just said about him i wished i had told him while he was alive...what would you tell him....RIP wd...keep the breeze between your ...

34 response(s), 60 votes
shycdAllie 69 T
1  question
Webcam viewers list - 11/17/2018

When I get on cam, 99% of the time viewers don't show up in the list. It shows the number of viewers, but nobody in the list. I don't know if this is a site issue or something wrong on my end. I was wondering if anybody else has this problem or if there are any tech wizards that know how I can fix it.

34 response(s), 50 votes
BlkMale84 40 M
1  question
Are you missing your free chat messages? - 11/17/2018

Seems like every other day my "free messages" are not resetting.

35 response(s), 61 votes
Daiskai 26 M
1  question
The Perfect Attention Grabber - 11/16/2018

Hello everyone, I've been a user of sites like these for quite awhile, with little success. I've switched things up on my approach numerous times-long story short, nothing has improved. <br><br> So curious, what is a good attention grabber for you ladies? What do you like for in a match before deciding to talk with them? <br><br> As for men, are you picky with ...

31 response(s), 47 votes
vfr800rider 62 M
7  questions
What happens to hot or not? - 11/16/2018

Was gone for a month and that feature was gone when I got back. I use to have fun flipping though it as a time killer. I also found some members I didn't know existed. I for one miss it.

23 response(s), 40 votes
BiKinkyM4U 53 M
2  questions
A woman's view on male bisexuality? - 11/16/2018

Hello wondering why a bisexual woman is socially acceptable and a bisexual man is socially forbidden by most women? <br><br> I really didn't discover my bi side until I was in my 40's up till then sex with anything other then a woman was taboo or forbidden socially but one day I meet a couple for some 3 way play after a few encounters I was asked what I thought about bi play? ...

31 response(s), 49 votes
So I'm new to this - I keep broadcasting but get no viewers? Any tips - 11/16/2018

Would love to get some viewers but no one wants to play. Any tips on what I to do?

14 response(s), 19 votes
48215cocksucker 68 M
1  question
Any Men looking for a blo and swallow and go and are willing to take pictures of cock in my mouth - 11/16/2018

Looking to Suck and Swallow in Detroit. I have a free account so please contact me by the mail on here...

15 response(s), 24 votes
cum is the best - 11/16/2018

kissing a mouth full of cum is that wrong

32 response(s), 41 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Would you pay - 11/15/2018

for sex with a person that embodies your fantasy come to life? They are the embodiment of your dream person but the only catch is they want you to to play. Nothing else will work and the amount they ask while expensive is something you could easily afford. Imagine you want this person more than anyone you ever had as they are perfection to you. <br><br> If you want tall or redheaded ...

31 response(s), 51 votes
Will someone please feed me some dick? - 11/15/2018

Why is it so hard for a discrete older white man to find dicks to suck? I don't ask for anything in return except to be discrete and to cum in my mouth. If any of your readers want me to suck their dicks sucked please let me know. I'm in Winnfield and will make time to services them.

11 response(s), 29 votes
Lonely2518 55 F
2  questions
Is it ok to want cock once in awhile? - 11/15/2018

I'm a lesbian, but like cock once in awhile. Is it okay to want cock once in awhile?

54 response(s), 58 votes
Hardtoholdtime2 64 M
2  questions
first meet - 11/15/2018

I met a girl on here she sent me pictures so made a date and when we met it was nothing like the pictures what would a been the right thing to say? I said Nancy? she said that is me I said I was looking for the girl in the pictures and left. why do people use 20+ year old pictures

18 response(s), 21 votes
Is there such a thing as taking too long to come? - 11/15/2018

I just wondered because sometimes it takes ages to come...

36 response(s), 38 votes
Aconn9910 37 M
5  questions
Tips - 11/15/2018

Where can I find members who want to tip me so I can remain gold member?

15 response(s), 32 votes
wetnwanton2 29 F
4  questions
Book "Smart" or street "smart" - 11/14/2018

I dont know if this has been asked before. If it has then , oh well. And its not a 'sexual' question either. <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> Do you consider yourself to be "book smart" or "street smart" and what is the difference?

31 response(s), 28 votes
justinrhodz18 23 M
1  question
Why be unfair about size if I cannot change it? - 11/14/2018

FLASH STORY: Im Justin, a curious 18 virgin (not desperate), Im 5.5 inches when erected (which is average), 3 fingers width, so I was about to get laid with this dark lady, until she asked me “is it big?”, so I said it was 5.5 inches, she was not even interested, thats not fair at all. I was disappointed. Its like saying I only want girls with boobs the size of my head, now that would not be ...

50 response(s), 49 votes
StolenNecta 50 F
8  questions
Bit Concerned. - 11/14/2018

I don't write here anymore, got bored with it a few years ago. Used to write quite a lot. Noticed my old friend Kurt has not logged on in a while. Hope all's well with him. Does anyone know why he has not been around?

20 response(s), 28 votes
FWB0263a 55 M
12  questions
Is Older just as fun? - 11/14/2018

As a mature individual. I am curious to know if women are more attracted to experience or physical features of their bed partner.

24 response(s), 33 votes
FWB0263a 55 M
12  questions
Is Older just as fun? - 11/14/2018

As a mature individual. I am curious to know if women are more attracted to experience or physical features of their bed partner.

3 response(s), 1 vote
tannermann2013 57 C
2  questions
Best Dildo for 2019 - 11/13/2018

Looking for the best dido/vibrator for wife. Any serious suggestions appreciated. Thank you.

28 response(s), 41 votes
tannermann2013 57 C
2  questions
Best Dildo for 2019 - 11/13/2018

Looking for the best dido/vibrator for wife. Any serious suggestions appreciated. Thank you.

1 response(s), 1 vote
Is sex sexist? - 11/13/2018

Why so many times we hear about guys and there sexual conquests. How they are lauded and almost held to heroic and legendary standards. But....... If we flip the script.... let's look at how a woman is looked upon. She is treated the exact opposite as a man... Why is this??

40 response(s), 49 votes
subson4dadd 38 M
1  question
can i "auction" off my first time? - 11/13/2018

hey everyone, ive been thinking, since im technically bi-curious, (have never been topped) i was wondering if any male over the age of 40 would be interested in being my first? Any takers?

25 response(s), 35 votes
1234funppl 33 M
1  question
how big is too big? - 11/13/2018

size matters

32 response(s), 49 votes
8inshape47 55 M
5  questions
no more Craigslist - 11/13/2018

now that Craigslist has removed their personals section, has anyone found a reliable place to contact others to meet up?

15 response(s), 38 votes
Athleticmale7979 39 M
1  question
IM - 11/13/2018

Anyone else find they lose chats on IM

14 response(s), 18 votes
What's in a name? - 11/13/2018

Looking at the names on Xmatch, I am wondering if there is a method to the madness. How did you come up with your profile name?

15 response(s), 15 votes
walkinbanana2 44 M
2  questions
Billing - 11/12/2018

Is billing really discreet?

34 response(s), 28 votes
mattjoe22 44 M
11  questions
Is a Birthday boy Entitled to some extra sex related fun!?!? - 11/12/2018

Today 11/12 is my birthday. I HOT, HARD and so horny I likely to have 6-7 orgasms!! <br><br> Because today is is my birthday, would anyone like to please me and make my eyes roll back in my head?!? <br><br> I serious and so very ready for a hot, wet body I about to explode just thinking about it!! <br><br> Fuck me hard as I in heat bc it is 's ...

39 response(s), 51 votes
humbocksha1 60 M
3  questions
Points - 11/12/2018

This has probably been asked and answered. However I wasn't experiencing a problem nor looking for an answer until now. <br><br> I notice I have stopped accruing points. I am making plenty of comments, posting pictures and doing the activity that generally made my pionts increase. They have stopped increasing. Anyone know why?

25 response(s), 48 votes
Shgena 47 C
1  question
Is she out there? - 11/12/2018

I have been unsuccessful at keeping a girl in my life.... I am married but he doesn't care if I have a gf as long as I am 100% honest. But is she out there?

20 response(s), 35 votes
Munnacag 27 M
1  question
hey i am here for serious relationship for sex and other - 11/11/2018

related to sex...

19 response(s), 39 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Anyone done siblings? - 11/11/2018

Wasn't at the same but I just as of Friday morning had sisters. Taylor was my longest hookup times and we're not seeing each other because of something she did (no not cheating because we're not exclusive). <br><br> Anyway she texted me about her older sister saying she liked to have fun. She didn't even warn her about my stamina. We had a great time she got sore for ...

32 response(s), 60 votes
Flashing truck drivers - 11/11/2018

Have any females on here ever flashed truck drivers? If so, tell us about it.

22 response(s), 26 votes
RednCole666npr 40 C
1  question
Wanna fuck? - 11/11/2018

Anyway any body acctually get luck on Xmatch? Doubt it

56 response(s), 75 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
American Vetera s Day - 11/11/2018

Thank you to all who served. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 Enjoy your day battles.

19 response(s), 60 votes
areyouready619 59 M
2  questions
To be bi or not bi - 11/10/2018

I'm a bit confused as how do you classify someone sexuality specifically bisexuality ?When does a person decide that they are by when they touch somebody of the same sex, when they have had sexual contact in a situation with somebody of the same sex, when they've had sexual contact with somebody of the same sex when just the two of them or maybe when you seek out or look at another ...

36 response(s), 45 votes
Entertaining at deer camp - 11/10/2018

Are there any ladies here that would be interested in entertaining at deer camp?

20 response(s), 21 votes
Kimberly5765 29 F
1  question
I need sex - 11/10/2018

I'm sexy horny girl looking for a guy to fucccck. if you fuck me text my personal number +1(814)945-0059

0 response(s), 0 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Wet Dreams - 11/9/2018

The association is with adolescent males but it got me wondering. Do women have wet dreams at all? I would think it is possible but I never heard any woman admit to it.

25 response(s), 55 votes
12coupleformore 43 C
1  question
Conversation starters - 11/9/2018

What’s a good way to initiate good conversation and read through the window shoppers when it comes to other couples?

29 response(s), 58 votes
Woman only, have you personally had sexual orgasms while sucking a dick/cock? - 11/9/2018

I only ask this question because I has happened to me over six (6) times and wondered how often it happens. Just a 84 year man with a question I would like to get some answers from women on Xmatch.

26 response(s), 31 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
Are the new members that stupid or just desperate? - 11/9/2018

I keep getting messages from guys that basically are just carrying on a conversation with themselves. they'll send a maybe a coherent sentence at the most. And if it's their 1st message they get my auto reply. Which states I don't reply to one word or one sentence messages. Many in fact most of them continue to send messages basically caring on a conversation with themselves. I ...

24 response(s), 68 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
yay or nay!!!! - 11/9/2018

would you be interested in a all nude cruise 2019?

39 response(s), 76 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
Could be scary...Could be really exciting...what do you think - 11/8/2018

If you were having sex with someone you just met hours ago, and they suggested trying bondage, you agreed, -tied you to a bed-, the person titillates you for awhile, but then gets up and leaves... gone for 2 hours..... and then the person comes back, alone, and unties you/ takes off the handcuffs, and suggests having more sex.......would you stay and have more sex with the person, or would you ...

34 response(s), 60 votes