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Advice Line Responses by southokguy58 Add a Question

Have we lost any sense of common courtesy? - 3/3/2020

Can you help me understand why people on Xmatch cannot provide the basic courtesy of replying, even to say 'not interested'. I don't understand why some start a conversation and then bail ou

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May to December - 10/30/2019

What is it about older men or women that attracts you who are younger? Or vice-versa, what is about a younger lady or man that attracts you who are older?

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Erotic Stories - 10/22/2019

I have noticed my story submissions are often missing words -- somewhat randomly the systems seems to drop words. I've edit the same stories a few times and still words are missing. Has anyone el

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Younger guys and older men - 10/16/2019

Like a lot of more mature men, I have a desire to connect with a younger man and I think there are young guys who have a desire to be with older. To those younger guys, what is it about an mature man

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How do you know? - 10/15/2019

It seems Xmatch is more a social media site than one for actually connecting. For those who have had some 'success' in meeting, what has been helpful in discerning who's actually looking and

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