The last 4+ years I've gone through the hardest and most intense emotional roller coaster and healing process I could ever conceive = Twilight Zone. Somehow I've made it through it alive........don't know how, but I did. During this process I said all along I was done with women, and I was prepared and accepted the fact that I would be alone the rest of my life. Recently(especially if your name is Recently) I've accepted and had to admit to the fact that I really enjoy and miss a woman's companionship, and if given the choice, I'd rather not live alone. But, we all have to deal with what life throws at us. I know life isn't fair but, I just wish life wouldn't keep reminding me of that fact. Most of us try to do the best we can. Enough with the theatrics, or preliminaries.....I'm a good, honest and loyal guy looking for a good woman. I'm looking for a good honest friend, with or without sex. Sex is a heck of an enhancement to a great and trusting friendship though, and can be incredible and mindblowing. I'm a spiritual per, and over the last several years have looked upon sex a bit differently than most(especially going without), or at least differently in the way I view it now, compared to ten or twenty plus years ago. The way I look at it now, and the way it really is.....it's about two people sharing each other's sexual energy. If you understand what's going on with the tantra of the energies you're sharing.......it can the best of the best of the best experience(s) you can ever have or imagined(read that again, yeah, three bests). That would be awesome. Is there a good woman out there for me?? I don't know, but I'm thinking it's possible.......maybe. Kinda like a needle in a haystack but maybe.........just maybe. If there's a woman out there even close to what I'm looking for, and is honest and loyal.......I'll treat you like a goddess......and yes, I love giving oral.....it's awesome......and quite a turn on for me. I thoroughly enjoy giving my partner pleasure. The sexual energy is intense......just the thought of doing the act raises the energy/frequency level. Yeah, I definitely enjoy it. It's been a long time, and I'm out of practice. I'm in dire need of lots of practice, and I very much desire it.....and crave it...... I definitely miss sex and the companionship of a woman, but I'm not desperate. I'm willing to wait for the right per. If it doesn't happen, so be it. I don't know exactly how this site works, but if there's a link you can add me as a friend that would be cool, and I do enjoy talking on the phone. Whatever works.

My Ideal Person A friend.....an honest friend....no liars........can't go through that again.

A woman that likes to take control at times, or as often as you want, whenever you feel the need. Take a ride on top for as long as you want, or tell me what you want me to do. That's one thing I haven't had in a long time........I don't mind being treated as a sex toy, at least every now and then, or every night, it's awesome. Just do it. Or let me take control, it's all good. Any other questions....just ask me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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