It's been years since I've had any kind of sex with a woman. My preference is sex with a curvy woman. I don't mean big tits, I mean big thighs, and big everything else. I just do. It's humbling, and depressing to come to the realization that the last time I had sex with a woman .... years ago, was likely the last sex I'll ever have. However, I noticed around 50 years of age, women, to a large degree, aren't interested in "old" men, and many women in that age group lose interest in sex. That's just the way it is. It would be a BIG thrill just to either watch a woman masturbate, or her watch me, or we watch each other. No risk. That's as safe as it gets! I don't want to sound desperate, but ..... Every day, we're a day older than we were yesterday. Time seems to be accelerating. I understand why women my age either have no or little interest in sex, and especially with a married guy. That leaves me only one option, to "motivate" a younger woman into giving me some thrills. That's a discussion that would have to occur in person, with no recordings. The only people that seem interested in me is other guys wanting to suck my cock!! Sucking and being sucked, and of course stroking. Watching a guy masturbate is kind of a thrill. I reckon it resurfaces memories of my teenage years when I was a virgin. I'm vanilla. Not really into anything kinky. I could probably be talked into being tied up if that's what you really want. Hmmm, wow ... I do miss fucking fun plump women. Shame most women aren't into old men.

My Ideal Person I simply want a good hand job.

The ultimate would be someone who lives alone, or has access to an empty house ..... that we can play in a secure, safe place.

A chunky woman, of any age, that loves giving and receiving oral, and will enjoy me licking my cum from her pussy because since I've had so little sex in the past couple decades I'll surely cum quick, but hopefully my oral pleasing, with use of toys if she prefers will get her off too.

However, at this stage I'm accepting the fact I may not find another woman to please, so finding a man that sees things as I do, pleasing each other may be the only good orgasms I'll have anymore. I'm chunky so I'm more comfortable around other chunky people. I actually get turned on by plump, curvy, fat ..... especially thighs.

My cock is probably average. It's probably 5.5". I've had women tell me it's very adequate, and there was this one woman who said it wasn't.

I'd prefer a mild person.

I seem to be attracted to certain men, and this confuses me, because I'm not attracted to men like I am woman. I think it's more of what I can tolerate more than desire. This World needs more compassion, and at this stage in my life I realize I'm not getting enough of it.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sucking a cock while fucking a pussy.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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