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lookinginTO71 53 / F
"Let's see what is out there???"
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
 
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lookinginTO71 53/F
Toronto, Ontario , Canada
Introduction
Very busy professional that does not have time for games. More submissive than dominant. Not interested in married men or women.

My Ideal Person I have moved to the Toronto area as of May 2019.
I am a professional woman that has the ability to take care of herself financially and emotionally.
I lived a submissive lifestyle when I was very young. I was trained and mentored by a true Dominant. My life path took me on a different journey but now I have come to terms with the fact that I can no longer hide my need to be Dominated.
I have found on this site many interesting people....it has given me great insight....

What I don't want:
I DON'T WANT YOUNGER MY EXPERIENCE WITH YOUNGER IS ALL TALK AND YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE A CONNECTION AND DEVELOP THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP.
I don't want someone that only practices the physical side of a Dominant submissive relationship.

What I want:
Someone that understands the importance of the mental and spiritual side of a Dominate submissive relationship. When a Dominant controls a submissive mentally it is euphoric. That is when the physical takes on levels and boundaries that both have never experienced before but you can't get there if it is only a physical focus...
It takes time, nurturing and patience. You have to have the time to nurture the relationship, you can't be there one day and then gone for days on end. Not in the beginning anyways....it is respecting each other and what each other brings to the relationship.

Although I have made the choice to live the life of a submissive, it does not mean that it gives you the right to disrespect me. If you wish to contact me I expect it to be respectful, if you demand for me to address you as Sir we will not continue our communication. Calling one Sir is earned by both the submissive and the Dominant. I am a curvy large woman if you are not attracted to that don't contact me save us both the aggravation.

As far as my limits. Limits are forever changing and are based on comfort, trust and respect but some things I enjoy are listed below.

As for my Kinks/needs/wants:
My wants and needs are really based on that of the Dominant. I learnt that pleasing Him is what pleases me. My most pleasurable moments are watching and feeling the pleasure of my Dominant. For me it is not about the act but the Dominant reaction to the act.
I have come to enjoy:
anal sex
oral sex- something I could do for hours
DP I enjoy
bondage
stretching
nipple and vaginal suction
role play
Daddy/lg
blindfolds
lingerie
spanking
flogging

I do hope everyone is able to find what they are looking for.

Sincerely,

m

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 53 / female
  • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: July 20, 1971
Marital Status: Single
Body Type: Average
Race: Caucasian
Bra Size: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
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