We`re a very open minded full-swap couple with no "hang-ups". We`re clean, fit, fun and discreet with a desire to "spice" things up through the opportunities this lifestyle offers. We prefer to play apart which means nearly any way that you might imagine playing apart we've done it.. hence our very strong relationship... we often play together for the first round then depending on how we "click", adapt to individual preferences of our new found friends no pressure, no expectations, sometime different beds, some time different rooms and most often we play apart on different nights independently.. Not to be too philosophical... Our style of "play" affords us the occasional freedom to experience more spontaneity and "spice" that this lifestyle offers. Most of our friends would say we have easy-going peralities. We are a mildly outgoing couple in a secure loving relationship, and aren't looking to replace each other. Just looking for some occasional extra sexual adventure to spice things up. We respect all boundaries and expect the same. We'd like to establish a friendship in and out of the sheets, and aren't really looking for one time hits. Additionally, we are physically attractive, work out regularly and enjoy lots of interests. Both are educated professionals who enjoy family, downhill skiing, scuba diving, long walks, good wine. We'll only respond to others on this site whose profiles have photos and will meet for dinner or drinks before committing to extracurricular activities. We are a "full swap" couple and can/prefer to "play" apart! We're comfortable providing full face photos in advance to those interested in meeting and, via our albums, to those who have joined our Friends network. We expect the same from those who express an interest in getting together, even if you choose to attach them to a separate email. After all, looks and trust are important factors in intimate relationships. If interested send us an email with pictures attached if you don't have any in your profile. We want to know what you look like as a whole not just your sex organs. We will be happy to reciprocate. [I][B][U]Note to cheaters:[/U][/B][/I] If you are a CHEATER or playing WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER'S PERMISSION - DO NOT CONTACT US ~ You can't be trusted with your own relationship why would we trust you with ours?[B][/B]

My Ideal Person We are looking for the right combination of personal chemistry, comfort and candor in others to be able to explore the full range of "extracurricular sex". The right man, woman or couple will be open-minded, intelligent , D&D free and physically fit, with interests that extend beyond the bedroom.

Please keep in mind..

1. We­he a happily married straight woman and straight man. We­he interested in exploring sex with another man/woman/couples and/or friends with benefits.
2. We­he looking for someone who can be discreet because... we'll, that should be obvious.
3. We consider ourselves mildly kinky, but NOT into pain...
4. Things we consider taboo in the bedroom are...drugs and again, pain.
5. As far as we­he concerned, the best place to have sex is 100 miles + of our home.
6. Sexual rendezvous学dd excitement to our relationship, looking for love does not interest us.
7. One sexual fantasy we've always had is...
8. Our feelings about one-night stands is that they can be acceptable however, Friends w/ Benefits are more attractive.
9. During sex or a romantic evening, we prefer to listen to erotic or exotic music i.e. enigma etc..
10. Sensuality - like: touching, candles and massage - is as important as sex.
11. We believe foreplay is underrated. We like lots of foreplay before going straight to penetration.
12.Please be discreet and respectful as we would be with you. NO DRAMA (if you are not 100% sure you would like to see your partner with someone else, please DO NOT RESPOND

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Making Home "Movies", Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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