Hi! I'm a good looking (I've been told), single, intelligent, open minded guy... discreet, respectful of all, fun, professional, clean and clean cut, safe, sane and grounded with a touch of "bad boy" (again, so I've been told). 6'2" 225lbs, short brown hair, blue eyes. I enjoy working out regularly, intelligent conversations, lots of laughter, reading the paper in bed, cooking, good food and drink, music, the outdoors and spending time with my friends. For the first time in a number of years, I'm not in a relationship and I'm really enjoying it! I tend to be a little "take charge" in the bedroom (nothing weird or scary!) but I do love to pleasure a mate and her needs/satisfaction always comes first! Discretion is assured and a must! I truly miss the thrill of having an "our little secret" type of relationship. **Please note- I'd be more than happy to provide pics after we've chatted and established a good comfort level**

My Ideal Person Well... basically a friend with benefits! I'd like to stress the "friend" and the "benefits" parts of that statement... it would be nice to meet someone to have fun with in and out of the bedroom. I'm completely open to the type of woman to get together with. Age, race, profession and body type are not hang-ups for me... I would probably prefer a woman 30-40+ with curves who is totally down to earth. You should be fairly drama-free, some what balanced, able to intelligently converse, independent, open minded, fun and love to laugh, discreet, clean, laid back with a touch of "bad girl" and sexual adventurousness to her. For now, you should ONLY be looking for regular/semi-regular fun, relaxed get-togethers (alone or with friends) such as dinners (in and out), drinks, shows, local events, hanging out and/OR real adult fun whenever the mood moves us- no pressure... if something more serious develops over time, then that's great! Please be respectful of the fact that I'm not shopping for a girlfriend/wife (at this very moment) and I'll be respectful of your situation and needs as well. *Special note- Ebony women are especially encouraged to drop me a note!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The list is long...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having spontanious, raw, lustful sex with one of my female
friends... She and I have been great friends and have kind
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of flirted with each other but never took it any further...
finally, after a few cocktails, we look at each other and
know that this is it... we strip each other's clothes
off and fall in bed, wrapped in each other's arms and
legs... we orally pleasure each other and I bring her to
her first, of many orgasms... I lay her on her back, she spreads
her legs wide, looks me in the eyes and asks me to fuck her...
I enter her slowly with very shallow strokes at first but
she soon wraps her legs around my waist and pulls me all the
way into her... Her back arches, she lets out a deep moan
and she begins to pump me... She begins to shake and has another
orgasm... Eventually, I roll her over on top of me, grab
her hips and thrust myself into her again... Her breasts
are bouncing as we pump and grind each other... Nearing
exhaustion, we climax at the same time and fall into each
other's arms and drift off to sleep with me still in
her.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Fantasize might be a little strong, but it would be Jennifer
Aniston or Hale Berry... behind closed doors they turn
into a dirty girls and we bang like bad, little monkies!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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